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Thursday, March 6, 2008 - When Cyberpaths Attack: GRIDNEY/ YIDWITHLID (a prime example) - Part II

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 8.  This is MY Club, You Aren't Allowed

This cyberbully who is such an innocent victim? Pay attention to the infantile baloney a predator like him can pull:


Gridney/ Yidwithlid says he supposedly has VERY LITTLE CONTROL over a blogging aggregator to which both he & his Target 1 belong.  (He says she's "following him"... LOL)


We read on her blog she was hacked May 2007.  She won't tell us who did it - but we think we know.  Gridney/ Yidwithlid says he has no idea what is going on & is outraged he and his cyber posse are even suspected!  This victim of his? Never said his name or that she suspected him.  Sounds like GUILT, Yid! 


And...  hmmm, he should be more careful what he HIMSELF puts on the net.  The Exposer actually checks!!


GRIDNEY/ YidwithLid's got lots of blogs out there.  Sounds like self-admitted narcissist Sam Vaknin.  Can't get enough of themselves so they fill up the net with their rhetoric.  Also creates a wider net for them to lure more innocents in to their web.


This one's from yidwithlid.typepad.com  January 2007:

"January 21, 2007
New Peoples Choice Category: Most abusive of system
From two different sides of the world we wondered ....Who was crapping on our posts and yours. We had our lists of suspects but couldn't prove who was giving the bad grades ten at a time ...and how they were working sooooooo fast. Still have no clear proof. We do have some suspects . We googled the posts of one and noticed that there was one who would put up 8-9 posts one day, get them up over a hundred points take them down and repost the same articles the next day.

Then Sherlock Bagel Blogger found the a gun that was smoking even more. He put it in a much nicer way than me:

The awards known as the People's Choice awards seem to be finishing a lot quicker than most people expected.

I was going to hold on to this information until the results of the People's Choice Awards' became known, but I feel that it is not being honest to not divulge what I know.

I've debated with my self, my family and friends, should I or shouldn't I?

I also don't want to be accused of 'bitter lemons'.

I wrote a letter to another blogger and in the course of the letter I presented/made a table, now that I have made the table I feel something is seriously amiss.

I wont say what it is.

I'll leave the plain facts speak for them selves.

I have a PDF of the Google cache of 17th of Jan of the Israel forum's blog_best [rankings] which is now no longer available. [I have a copy and a html back up]

and I have a PDF of the 19 th Jan 2007 Israel forum's blog_best

Thats less than two days apart

What's the main difference? Well check it out you should be able to see it, it occurred over less than two days.

The person is relying on no one seeing anything or saying anything. Well I won't say anything if you don't.

Well here it is in Table form:
Rank 19th Jan     Blog Name     Votes tally on 17th Jan     Rank on 17th Jan     Votes tally 19th Jan    

Date last activity
    Tally count difference    

Up or DownPlaces
1     The Last Best Place     5224     1     5503     18th     279     0
2     Freedom's Cost     3676     2     3734     16th     58     0
3     Yid With Lid     5916     3     6066     18th     150     0
4     Samson Blinded     2359     8     3579     18th     1220     +4
5     Daf Notes     3993     4     4199     18th     206     -1
6     Bagel Blogger     4737     5     4949     19th     212     -1
7     The Maggid of Bergenfield     1092     6     1113     16th     21     -1
8     Simply Jews     6818     7     6978     18th     160     -1
9     Baleboosteh     2367     9     2422     18th     55     0
10     JoeSettler     2253     11     2255     17th     2     +1
11     Sarah's View     4317     10     4366     18th     49     -1
12     The Way I See It     3250     12     3279     16th     29     0
13     Divrei Chaim     1385     13     1404     18th     19     0
14     Orthomom     3016     17     3102     18th     86     +3
15     Chayyei Sarah     1592     15     1592     14th     0     0
16     Ask Shifra     1600     16     1616     14th     16     0
17     The Muqata     2078     14     2140     18th     62     -3
18     Slightly Mad     1425     18     1425     14th     0     0
19     Israellycool     4319     19     4440     19th     121     0
20     Lazer Beams     2230     20     2315     18th     85     0

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Here are snapshots of sections of the webpages in question:"


He took 'snapshots'?

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Seems he and this BagelBlogger are into watching who comes and goes from this 'supposedly' unbiased aggregator and 'totally fair' blog voting.  CLICK HERE TO LOOK WHO'S AT THE TOPS ON THE AGGREGATOR!!

Yid With Lid  VOTES: 26910
Bagel Blogger  VOTES: 13649


If you click the link to the aggregator? Yid has MORE VOTES THAN ANYONE ELSE - almost DOUBLE!  And the top blogger list has numerous bloggers who haven't posted in weeks according to the dates. 


Yid and Bagel Blogger are CAREFUL not to make themselves #1 and #2 -  there's some rigging going on? - this aggregator apparently a fixed race for FRIENDS or ASSOCIATES OF THESE TWO AND THEIR COHORTS?  Looks like they DO have some 'power' and control over this aggregator.


Typical narcissists - they make SURE they are TOPS in their little online "club."  sickening.

 

So Target #1?  You don't need to tell us who hacked you - we know. 

 

Gridney/ Yidwithlid also takes out his frustrations when he is hacked with more cybersilliness:  HERE

asshole

 

9. Rules Don't Apply to ME!

Here's a quote from GRIDNEY (YidwithLid's) on 8/14/07 - on his website:

I love the web's freedom. But with freedom comes responsibility. Certainly those who use the internet to harass or terrorize are abusing the freedom the internet brings.


Let us guess - if someone is exposing YID for the predator, bully and liar he is - they're a terrorizer.  


Sure he loves the web's freedom - to prey on trusting women and dispose of them when they become inconvenient with no remorse! (sounds like all of them! blame-shifting and paramoralizing)


But when HE is called out on his predatory & manipulative actions towards the vulnerable women he targets; women who actually CARE about him - he's a victim


And if you want to prey on, lie to and manipulate vulnerable women and use them as sex toys to be tossed away when you're done - to YidwithLid - That's FREEDOM!
 


The Exposer knows - FREEDOM isn't FREE.  And where's your responsibility, YidwithLid?  For what you did to innocent people?


Did we mention cyberpaths are hypocrites? 


10. Terrorizing, Domination & Control

Cyberpaths, Predators and all Pathologicals are like most abusers - its about Control.  Particularly the control of the flow of information and truth.  Let's take a peak at how this cyberpath does some of it:

GRIDNEY (aka YidWithLid) has his blogs set so:


1. you HAVE to have a Blogger account to comment;


2. no anonymous comments.  He "says" its for the integrity of his blogs! B.S.  He wants to be able to track & smear anyone who calls him on his lies - just like a predator - always protecting their "image."  CAN WE SAY HYPOCRITE!


He says:
Yesterday I recieved a few "anonomous" postings about one of the writers who's work I have repulished on this blog. (someone whom I have only met via email after I posed one of his stories) The comments were very defamitory about this person.

It is quite interesting that people who say bad things about others, like to keep their names and real email adresses "anonomous" It tells me something about the quality of what they are saying. Anyway, those comments will continue to be deleted as I will not be a party to their acts.



Hold on!  Gridney/ YidwithLid doesn't use his real name! So that makes HIS comments anonymous.  Smells like a double standard there SAMMY!
IDIOT
11. They're Constantly Ego-Surfing Themselves

Cyberpaths love to check the web for any evidence of their misdoings and try to erase it.  NOTHING ever really disappears on the web.  Nothing.  If someone knows how to get into cache files - the internet is a FOREVER thing.


(Gridney/ Yidwithlid likes to log into the Exposer from an IP in Nashville, TN - wonder if his employer knows he does that?) as well as foreign IPs like Germany, Norway and so on.



12.  The Use of 'Helpers' to Do Their Dirty Work

Also, Gridney/ Yidwithlid has made contact with an ex-client of his Target #1 (Target #1 is now a DV counselor).  This woman - named "Judy" - has a lot of transferred anger against Target #1 because of her recommendationd "Judy" get professional counseling.  And from 'Judy's actions below - she seems to really need it!

Now Gridney/ Yidwithlid is letting "Judy" do his dirty work & lying for him.  We just heard "Judy" has a Federal order of protection against her from no less than 3 members of the site where Target #1 used to work - and tried to help her.  The cajhones of these bullys!!

Here's the slander "Judy" posted around the net after talking to Gridney/Yidwithlid about this poor victim  (tell us, did your predator, ex and their buddies say similar crap about you when you told the truth?  - they all seem to pull from the same 'slander pool') 

Cyberpaths love to get others to either do or help the do their dirty work:

"BARBARA XXXX  is sooo pissed off at the world that she has to bad mouth people. This phone sex whore has never meet me. She has never talked to me. I have NO idea why this BITCH hates me. We live across the country from each other. She is BI-POLAR and forgets to take her meds.  (Barbara is not Bi-Polar or on any psychiatric meds)

She's very fat and very over weight.  (Neglects to mention the fact Barbara's weight is due to a severe physical disability and has had multiple surgeries)  In fact, BITCH BARBARA is a diabetic (No, she's not diabetic) and doesn't take her metformin. (huh?)

She is into phone sex. She was giving phone sex to [Gridney/ Yidwithlid] until he tired of her. (she did?  at least Yid kinda 'admitted' to 'Judy' he used Barbara until he got bored) She begged him to give her another chance. When he wouldn't she posted his name all over the internet. (Barbara never begged him to give her another chance nor was she the one who posted his exposes anywhere!  EOPC contacted HER not the other way around! LOL) Even called the cops on him.  (Reported his verified death threats against her)  Unreal! BITCH, what part of "He's just not in to you" don't you get? During all of this phone sex, her husband is in the next room. (and 'Judy' knows this how when she started by saying she doesn't know Barbara...  LOL) Unbelievable! I've heard that he has moved upstairs to get away from the BITCH WHO LOVES PHONE SEX BECAUSE NO MAN ON EARTH WANTS TO HAVE REAL SEX WITH THIS UGLY BITCH.  (Barbara is divorced now, and she initiated the divorce.  Her husband didn't want to divorce her.  As for her sex life, again - how would 'Judy' or Gridney/ Yidwithlid know this??)   It's the only sex she will ever get. EVER. She says she can't work because she's to fat to move.  (Again, no mention of her severe physical disability - which has nothing to do with being fat

So if your into phone sex, go ahead, give the bitch a call. (845)687-7706. If your in the neighborhood, go see how ugly she is: 372 Scarawan Road, Stone Ridge, New York. Or drop her a sickning card: 2 2 RR 2 Box 115 Accord, New York, 12402.  E-mail this phone sex addict at: pedsilva@gawab.com or at BDC@yahoo.com Silva is her maiden name.  (we only published all this information above because it's not only all incorrect, it was never valid...  so where 'Judy' got this from who knows!  wait she says where she got it from below... NOT!!)

She has harrassed me to the point of threatening my life along with my sons. I had to give her name to the FBI. They in return gave me her full name. (LOL - wow then the FBI got it wrong.  Besides, the FBI would never ever give out personal information like that.  Wonder if they know what Judy's saying about them?  And 'Judy's' children are adults - how can they all be threatened?) This bitch has called me to harrass me at home. I had to change my number. (Barbara has never called 'Judy' and we are aware that a search of her phone records over the past 4 years would show this.  A complete lie by one of Gridney/ Yidwithlid's new terrorizing assistant!!) Remember, she doesn't even know me. I have no idea whats up her ass. Probably her dildo got stuck and pissed her off cuz she can't get it out! I'd sure like to put her picture up her. Her birthdate is Aug. 9, 63 but if you saw her you'd swear she was born in 43! She has the most ugliest hairdo from the 60's that I've ever seen. (Again, completely fallacious information) I hope to God she gets back on her meds. (you do? below 'Judy' hopes she has a heart attack. hmmm)  A total fucking fool! She needs to learn to let go! Yes Barbara the bitch! LET IT GO! I never did one thing to you bitch. Not one thing.  (what would you call this, ma'am?)  Leave me alone. Leave my family alone. The atthorities know all about you. They have the threatening e-mails you sent to my now defunked e-mail address. (We contacted some of our contacts at 'the authorities' - j
ust to check  - they have no such things.  They don't exist) She has also been arrested many times for harrassment.  (Barbara has never been charged or arrested.  Ever.)  She hates men to the point of trying to dystroy thier lives. If she only knew it's her life that she's destroying. It's eating away at her. Right now. As she reads this. Her blood pressure is soaring through the ceiling! I hope she has a heart attack.  (again, 'Judy' would know all this how????  and who's making death threats/ death wishes here?)

(note: 'Judy' seems to be a serial cyber-harrasser)

Cyberpaths love to use proxies (helpers)!  (both the human & internet kind)  Don't worry - its been reported to law enforcement by us, too!

So readers - when someone posts non-factual, nonsense made out of whole cloth about you on the web?  All you can do is laugh!!!  But if they DO post death threats or your personal information.  Contact your police and the FBI office nearest you immediately!



13. How Dare You Tell the Truth!

Reminder: Cyberpaths HATE when you show a backbone & stand up for yourself.  HATE IT!


These predators continue to amaze & astonish at their audacity.  GRIDNEY/ Yidwithlid could care less he contributed to at least 2 divorces, his big mouth got a brothel closed down, he caused trusting women severe trauma and put one into a center for the treatment of severe PTSD...(he says that makes HER crazy! LOL)   notice how predators all play that THEY are the victims here.  Think he'll ever apologize?

Readers, you can see who's at fault here for yourself...
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Saturday, June 30, 2007 - Glad To See You Guys Are On Your Feet Again!

Posted by "Fighter"
We just wanted to add some of the lunacy we got from yidwithlid ourselves via email, the first mail is the notice we sent him to remove things he'd copied from our site, to protect our copyright - then his 'answers.' You are right, he thinks we are one of his targets also! He can't even make up his mind where the poor woman is. Makes one wonder how many targets in how many places this predator had or still has?
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This is to advise you that you are using copyrighted and protected material on your website/blog. Your illegal, unauthorized use of http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2006/03/j-open-mouth-insert-keyboard.html article at your site: A STUMBLING TCHATZKAH -- is originally from our blog called EXPOSING ONLINE PREDATORS & CYBERPATHS . This is original content and we are the author and copyright holder to the chat.

The IPs we have for your site are: 69.112.162.87 and 69.112.161.215

On the sidebar of our main site we give any cyberpath the right to rebuttal along with the same burden of hard proof, along with a signed notarized statement that what they are saying is the truth along with copies of any pertinent documentation. We also have our copyright/usage rules.

Use of copyright protected material without permission is illegal under copyright laws. Please take the following action immediately:

Remove the plagiarized material immediately.

We expect you to do so now within 24 hours as per prior notification.

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but [target #1] if I wrote the chat I am the copywrite holder...and if I didnt then take it down and I will

Sammy
Yidwithlid@aol.com
http://yidwithlid.blogspot.com
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hope you are enjoying the convention in eurpe [target #1]

Sammy
Yidwithlid@aol.com
http://yidwithlid.blogspot.com
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Hey [target #1] ...haven't you gone to the site? I left you a present..You enjoying the pacific northwest?

Sammy
Yidwithlid@aol.com
http://yidwithlid.blogspot.com
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Sunday, July 1, 2007 - YidWithLid/Jeff D***z/Sammy/Gridney

Posted by Anonymous
This guy is totally NUTS. Totally off his rocker. He needs help.

Hey Jeff D****z, please show us the postmark. Don't give us your blah, blah, blah about how your wife recognized the postmark. While you are working on your computer in your kitchen so L*** can see what you are doing, upload the image of the envelope showing THE POSTMARK and let us all see it. Oh and let's see you accuse me of being one of your victims - I am not - I just know all about you from your California girlfriend! You know- the one who REALLY wrote your mommy... SHOW US THE POSTMARK. Can you do that J**y??????? Be a man instead of a bully.

Edited by theexposer on Monday, July 9, 2007 at 02:18
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Sunday, July 1, 2007 - these predators

Posted by Anonymous
Thomas, Jacoby, Hicks & Yid really do think their words create reality. If they SAY it - it must be true, huh! ROFL. How many women did they say I LOVE YOU too? Wives, girlfriends, online sex partners, hookers? Oh yeah - they MEANT it every time too. LOL!!

Do you know that yidwithalid works in the publishing business? Shows you how much about copyright he knows, absolute zip. What a moron.

Edited by theexposer on Friday, March 21, 2008 at 01:31
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Thursday, November 15, 2007 - YidWithLid's A Slob

Posted by Anonymous
What a gross man, Beer gut and tits...seems like Yid should be spending more time working out, getting a hair transplant and good dye job rather than spreading malicious bullsh*t and LIES.

Edited by theexposer on Sunday, November 18, 2007 at 10:23
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Thursday, November 15, 2007 - YidWithLid's Tits

Posted by Anonymous
And another thing....get a bra Yid or go for some reduction surgery. You look to be a mess. That's what the "no more prostitutes diet" does to predators like you!

Edited by theexposer on Sunday, November 18, 2007 at 10:22
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