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Friday, August 1, 2008 - The "True" Story of Gridney (aka YidwithLid) - Exposed!

A POWERFUL STORY: http://thestumblingblock.wordpress.com/

You can also view this whole story @ EOPC THE STORY OF "J"  
SCROLL THROUGH THAT MONTH TO READ IT ALL!

Gridney is called "J" there - the details and even copies of IMs between "J"/Gridney and his prey are spread in 12 posts throughout that month

THIS IS A STORY WORTH READING!!!

A friendship of 30 years torn apart by a predator's deception. One Man's sick sexual addiction creates a world of torment and confusion to a woman already trapped in the threshold of an abusive situation.

As she shares a very detailed stage by stage journal of her experience in retrospect, this author shows the tactics used on her throughout the story that reaches into the very core of your understanding.

HER SITE IS: YES, I WAS THE STUMBLING BLOCK

As you read through the chapters, notice the links available to further educate you as you explore your way through this real life nightmare.

The writer helps enlighten you and you find that most of questions you may have had as a victim yourself are being answered within the chapters. YES, I WAS THE STUMBLING BLOCK

In the hopes that her one time friend (who became her predator & terrorizer) turns his life around and heals his marriage after being exposed; more deception enters her life that ultimately leads into a emotionally draining turn of events in both of their lives.

Now her victimizer (Gridney aka - YidwithLid) seeks his revenge and is out to hurt her yet again.

While he spins his 'true' story about their relationship, he uses words to minimize & whitewash his role and cast all blame on his victim:
See his original post:http://thestumblingblock.wordpress.com/2007/03/15/he-said/

Here's the old Link to his tantrum about this woman
(Don't click there though - this coward who said he "wasn't running anymore" removed this link!)

TO SEE GRIDNEY'S (NOW: YidWithLid) NEW SITE!: http://yidwithlid.blogspot.com

While speaking from the heart with a honest attempt to set things right she includes her acceptance of responsibility as well as unedited documentation and hard proofs of what happened.

This writer shares her personal thoughts kept throughout this very painful time in her life and the deep sense of enduring loss of her "friend" with hope to allow them both to move forward in both their lives.

If Gridney/YidwithLid has put his life in such order, then why is he more focused on trying to destroy the very person that sent him on the path to change? Why does he blame her when he was a sex addict for years prior to luring her into his deceit?

Why does he say she "played his GAME with him?" when police records themselves show he never told her it was a 'game' nor did she have any inkling it was a 'game'?

Why is he so adamant about finding excuses that he will NEVER speak to this hurting woman who was his friend? Embarrassment? No reason to now that he can't lie to her anymore.

What's he really mad about?
Would he ever admit he did this to himself?
That this writer finally did the right thing and told his wife so his wife could help him?
That he can no longer feed his online porno, phone sex lines and expensive hooker habit? (he neglects to mention the latter in his rants)
Is he mad that his sick party is over?
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You're mad at the person that cared enough to make YOU STOP, Gridney!!

~~~~~

Strange how when the light is shown into these predators sick and twisted lives, they suddenly try to convince everyone they have changed, they are broken, sad, hurt, they are the victims, etc.......

Too many times they smear and paint their victim as crazy, jealous or a stalker = Which, predictably, Gridney/ YidwithLid did - HERE

And too many times, they just find another avenue.
(and by deleting his original post from his site, and deleting more of his reviews of prostitutes he was with on his lunch hours, seems he's tried to cover up and end all discussion again. CONTROL CONTROL CONTROL!!)

Thanks to EOPC for alerting us to this story!

Hold them accountable, no matter how long it takes.

The Exposer
exposer@37.com

(It has come to our attention that some of our links have been picked up by web spiders and aggregated to 'porn' sites.

We do not condone any of our posts being aggregated to pornographic sites without our express permission. This was done by automatic webspiders over which we have NO CONTROL! Particularly since some of our readers have been hurt by pornography & sex addicts.

Nor may any of our posts be copied & pasted to anyone else's blog or another site without our express permission.)

original post 9/2007

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CURRENTLY EXPOSED CYBERPATHS

WILLIAM BARBER
DOUGLAS (DOUG) BECKSTEAD
JULIA BISH-JUDAH-HUNT-McGOVERN
VINCENT BRIDGES
ANGELA BUER
JOSEPH ("JAY") CAFASSO
KEITH CLIVE
JODY ERWIN COOPER
MATTHEW COX
JAMES CRENSHAW
LISSA DALY
GARETH "GARY" DAVIES
BRAD DORSKY
LORI DREW (aka "JOSH EVANS")
JAMES BRIAN ELLINGTON
RON GARNER
JOHN GASH
PHIL HABERMAN
ED HICKS aka CHARLES HICKS
JAMES HODGES (ADULT CONTENT WARNING!)
"J" (aka "GRIDNEY", aka "YidWithLid" aka "Sammy Benoit")
DAN JACOBY
WILLIAM JORDAN
MIKE KENNEDY
STEVEN KOTAN
RICK KUDLIK
STEVEN LANGLEY GUY
"P"
CHRISTOPHER POWELL
JOHN ROBINSON
GARETH RODGER
GARY STONE
NATHAN ERNEST BURL THOMAS, JR.
TODD UNKEFER
GARY WANDSCHNEIDER

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Traits of a Socio/Psychopath
(does not need to have all of these)
1. Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them
2. Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them
3. Authoritarian
4. Secretive
5. Paranoid
6. Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired
7. Conventional appearance/ facade
8. Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)
9. Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim's life
10. Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim's affirmation (respect, gratitude and love)
11. Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim
12. Incapable of real human attachment to another
13. Unable to feel remorse or guilt
14. Extreme narcissism and grandiose
15. May state readily that their goal is to rule the world
(The above traits are based on the psychopathy checklists of H. Cleckley and R. Hare.)
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