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Monday, January 28, 2008 - My 19 Year Old Son is Dating Women My Age

This is freaking me out.  My son is good looking, smart, into sports and girls are crazy about him.  But any time he brings a girl...I can't even say girl, cause these are WOMEN.  Anytime he brings one around, I am looking at someone who should be one of my friends.  These women he dates are my peers.  He has dated a 34 year old,  a 37 year old and it seems to be getting worse.  The latest one calling the house is 40.  I have talked to him and asked him why they need to be twice his age.  This is very disturbing, to say the least!  He just says he likes them mature, and that they have more to talk about.  They are more interesting than the girls his age.
 I think it's a sex thing, myself.  But he won't admit that.  I have tried my best as a single mom to be the best mother I could to him, sacrificing a social life of my own practically, just to make sure he had whatever he needed all his life.  So why is he out here looking for mommies?  That's what it seems like to me.  And these women can barely even look me in the eye when I meet them.  I asked the 34 year old what the hell she thought she was doing with a 19 year old, and she just said "he's a good guy".  Can't they find good guys their own age?  I don't know what to do!!!  My son gets upset when I try to talk about it with him.  What to do?

Gina
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Thursday, April 10, 2008 - Your Son

Posted by Toni T
You sound like you are jealous. If he's happy, why do you care? You need a boyfriend yourself!
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